[b]Advice......[/b]

Devil1976 SG

Cool

Devil1976 SG

For better... Or worse... It's always better to be mentally prepared and have a wider range of acceptance for how things might turn out to be.... It don't necessarily have to be a negative form of thinking...? Cool

ptw SG

Hi everyone, I know this is a learning experience, I will not accept another girl as yet, not so soon, only when I have feelings for her and understand her well before I will go after her. I dont want to go after a girl which I dont love her as much as when I go after my ex. Though different feeling but I want to make sure that the feeling is there before I make the next move.

tan_william SG

Its good that you know what you need now..whatever you decided,remember that the people here will give you our support..good luck Very Happy

Project-D SG

anytime, ptw...

hope u posting good new next time on the forum.... good luck..........be confident with yourself... u have changed to better man after going through past R/S.... put the lesson learnt to good use....
Laughing

ptw SG

Thanks Project_D and everyone,

Things has move quite smoothly so far, dont know why, dont really think much abt her and the past, but I never forget how I go through all these events. I know there are people out there who suffer much worst than me. Quite numb somehow but why, I just dont know, maybe like what tan_william and icepole has said previously, forgive her......

Magnus SG

Just a reminder..

Sometimes 'hope' can be a dangerous thing.
it can hold u in limbo for years..

icepole SG

ptw,

you'll bounce back again.. perhaps u already have..

remember : it's easier to get older than to get wiser. make sure you ain't just growing older. Wink

ptw SG

Hi Icepole,

I dont really understand? Bounce back? Question

icepole SG

oh ptw, what i meant is bounce back to the stage of happiness!!! Laughing

ptw SG

Quite somehow, but not as to go after another girl but rather to stay single for a while. How I wish someone can tell me when I can bounce back to happiness.

icepole SG

ptw,

Happiness lies in your own hands. You'll have to pursue it. Meanwhile, enjoy the freedom of singlehood. Broaden your social circles.

ptw SG

Dont know why, when she is gone, started to fill up my emptiness with activities with my friend. Although I must admit I sometimes still miss the wonderful times with her but the hurt isnt there anymore. Times flies, she has also drifted further away from me. I still need time to build myself up and move on to my next dream.

I really hope that I can meet up with a girl I like and of course, not going through the same thing again. I really dont want to post similar thread again.

tan_william SG

you wouldn't post a similar thread again..have some faith in yourself k??its normal to miss the wonderful times you both had before..just now overheard my bro discussing marriage stuff with his gf and my mum..then my mind also went back to the times when my ex and me were talking of how we wanna our wedding to be..still feeling abit ke xi..
dun be afriad of a new r/s k??remember every person is different..your ex might treat you as nothing..but me believe there will be a girl that will love you as much or even more than herself..you just have to turn and you will see her already..go know more friends..who knows..your 'right' girl might just be a sis/friend of your friends..good luck..

icepole SG

Let nature takes it course.. Be more positive and you'll be happier.

Surely you can do it. In fact, you've already done it! Razz

Project-D SG

Mr. Green Laughing Wink Surprised finally ptw, u 'see' the light in the tunnel ahead.... i will say no more..... u know wat to do now.

ptw SG

Hi everyone,

yah, can really see the light but I will not rush into things yet, still no feeling for her, or maybe, I still need lots of time to recover and move on, let the time show. At least, after all the past few months of sorrow and misery, really learnt alot, suffer alot, isolate myself quite abit. I really hope that my future r/s will be as smooth as possible.

Really really hope time pass fast enough and a nice girl can appear in my live soon.

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